Need help e-mailing form post

HI I'm new to .asp and vbscript and I need to validate a form before
it is emailed to me. I don't really understand what email
functionality I have on the server (and the tech support might get
back to me in about 10 years). Right now all the current forms are e-
mailed using a method="post" action="http://www.website.com/cgi-bin/
mail?user@website.com", but I do not have any access to the script
that is e-mailing the form data.

What I would like to do is validate the form data and then e-mail it
directly, bipassing the mail script I'm currently using (the /cgi-bin/
mail?user@website.com), or validate the form data and pass it to the
current e-mail script.

I understand how to validate the form data, all that I am having
trouble with is the e-mailing. Any suggestions?